Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Wreckingball


Broken. That word has so many meanings even Webster can’t seem to condense it into one thought.  Webster defines broken many way…here are a few: to be disrupted by change; violently separated into parts; altered by breaking…but right now brokenness can be summed up in one word: life!

Some of you read that and immediately thought, “What is Ashley going thru, what’s wrong with her?” Let me ease your worries and say brokenness is something I have eagerly awaited. Yes it’s painfully violent, but we must be broken in order to be rebuilt.

When I was in Africa back in October of last year I went with my own mindsets, belief systems, all my qualifications and ‘Christianese’ ready to show them how skilled I was…..and all that came crashing down when Papa God showed me how little I knew and how immature I was. He tore me down…quoting Miley Cyrus…He came in like wrecking ball and completely demolished my little spiritual world. He killed everything I knew of myself….He completely devoured what I thought was my identity and since that time I have been fluid in His hands.

He’s constantly moving me and pouring me in and out so I won’t grow stagnant but He isn’t finished yet and there is another level of breaking and demolishing that needs to take place because instead of allowing myself to stay as fluid and stay moldable, out of familiarity and old habits I’ve begun to build myself walls….a house to pour myself into…one made of man made ideals, my own finite beliefs and here he is like the loving wrecking ball that He is to tear it down once again; and this time I lay down at His feet as a simple pile of rubble because I know that everything I thought I knew and everything I thought I was…..isn’t.

It’s time for me to be rebuilt by His plans, His way and in His timing. I can’t rush it and I can’t hinder it. Now is the time, so with a trembling voice I welcome demolition and brokenness. I invite pain….pain from killing those things I’ve perceived about Papa God. I invite brokenness.. Papa come and violently separate all my religious mindsets, disrupt my conditional love towards others, alter me Papa. Break me down, demolish me, and devour me so I can be rebuilt by your process.

Brokenness should not be rebuked it should be welcomed. 

Papa destroy life as I know it. Every mindset, every ideal, every thought pattern….disrupt it. Alter it. Rebuild it. Unlearn me. Unwind me. Untie me. Pull me on every side until I unravel because I’m holding myself together for what?!?! “Having it all together” is only a façade…a sign of immaturity and insecurity. 

Papa….tear it all down….with your great love come in and wreck me. With your sticks of dynamite labeled “Love” demolish me. With your gentle yet strong hand pull down every wall. I give you permission to destroy me. I lay down and give myself over to you to be completely devoured that I may be born again.


 Because life as I know it is unfamiliar but one thing that has always remains steadfast and true is that love always rebuilds.

 So Papa break me so I can be rebuilt.